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Why not?

Future is uncertain but death isn't. You won't just leave a pale body or your wealth but an image in their minds too!

Hey,
Sorry for beinf inactive!

Here I want to discuss about the severe cause of problems in one's life. Oops! Well, there cannot be discussions in here(lol) and the only choice you've got is to read because who doesn't want to solve their problems?

So here I go...

Isn't it that more than acceptions, we long for rejections. Well, it's not about proposals so get it out of your brain. I am talking about the help people ask you for. Okay! Here comes the need of example. I go explaining my question further. Has it ever happened to you that some of your long lost(old would've sounded aged) friend called you and after the formal greetings they came asking you for a help? Ofcourse it had happened with almost all of us. But how many do really help? A handful?
While the others say the 'no' thing that you tell yourself after that conversation with your friend where you make up a reason immediately to decline or postpone or just say 'I'll try'.
Have you ever wondered 'Why not?'
I mean your concern mostly is why should I? Why should I when he/she hadn't been in contact for so long? Mean people! Like really dude? I mean think twice? Do you really want them to make calls to you on a daily basis and ask you if you're alive? Or if you've had your dinner? Or if you wore a black pair of socks or blue? What rubbish? How can one even claim that they need regular conversations? I mean I'm actually that type of person who makes calls whenever I'm in need and always help people as long as it doesn't bother me. Yes! I am this type of person and you can call me selfish(as if I care).
But what if we all try to initiate this in our lives? Help others? As long as it's doing no harm to you? This is where it all ends. The problems and overthinking which leads to other problems because ofcourse time is precious and wasting something precious gives you regrets and then depression and then hypertension and you never know when it might turn into some chronic disease and then... Well it was a sarcasm.
All I'm here to tell you is help others when they ask for it because in the end, you might need help too.
This is how we grow.


All problems will come to an end when you'll start thinking about 'Why not?' rather than 'Why?'

And if you still choose to be an aloof, accept my hatred for you!

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